How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 00:32

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

That's it for today.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Does not procrastinate.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Hangs out with loser friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How can I improve my sleep quality using gadgets?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How does a new KDP writer supposed to market a book?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why do some women alter their faces by so-called cosmetic surgeries (on their eyes, cheeks, lips, chin, jaw) that making them look like Donald Duck or puffy aliens, while for most men these unnatural facial changes are ridiculous or even disgusting?

What I need from you?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.